In the late summer of 1932, as Los Angeles staggered beneath the weight of the Depression and Hollywood’s bright façades concealed countless private tragedies, a quiet and unsettling story unfolded—one that read less like a crime report than a deliberate farewell. It was the story of Arpad Mihok, a 65-year-old Hungarian recluse whose final day on earth was planned with chilling calm and carried out with heartbreaking resolve.
By Allan R. Ellenberger
Arpad Mihok (1867 - 1932)
Mihok, who earned his living as a hatter, had been sick for a long time. Newspapers said he had a disease they called "incurable." Weeks in a desert camp in Arizona had done him no good. Medicine could do nothing for him. When he went back to Los Angeles he had made up his mind. In a way that now seemed inevitable to him, Mihok had come to believe there was one question left to answer. Not when or if he would die, but how he would spend his final 24 hours of life.
Rather than vanish quietly, Mihok chose intention over disappearance. He went to Lake Elsinore, to a spot he had come to before and remembered from other visits, attracted to the stillness of the blue water and the cliffs rising above it. He spent his last day on earth there, lying and walking and drinking in the stillness of the lake. Those who came to see said he looked at peace, even content, a man for a few minutes no longer burdened by fear because of the inevitability of the act.
That night, Mihok returned to Los Angeles. After arriving in town, Mihok began making arrangements. On August 22, 1932, he went to Cheney & Rice Mortuary on Melrose Avenue. He did not present himself as a man about to commit suicide. Instead, he appeared as one "making arrangements for a friend."
He chose the cheapest casket available, paid cash for it, and informed the mortician that a grave had already been bought at Hollywood Cemetery. "Don't go to any trouble about flowers or caskets or anything like that. Just bury him as cheap as you can," Mihok said. "Oh, and don't put any clothes on him but a sheet." As he left the mortuary, he turned to the attendant, "You can call for him any time," he said.
The ambulance arrived less than an hour later at Mihok's cabin at 729 Westbourne Drive (since demolished). On the door was a homemade sign with a note scribbled in pencil: "Come in, don't knock." In the kitchen lay Mihok in a pool of blood, and near his right hand was a battered old derringer pistol. Two handwritten notes, also in German, were on the ground beside him. One stated that his remaining funds should be distributed to the poor and needy. The other, addressed to "Whom It May Concern", dealt with his personal property, to make sure his belongings went to family. On the table were cash, some receipts, and the deed to the cemetery plot, neatly placed there to avoid any confusion for strangers.
Authorities found no evidence of struggle or foul play. Neighbors described Mihok as solitary and increasingly despondent, a man worn down by illness and isolation rather than scandal or debt. The sheriff’s office concluded that loneliness and failing health had driven his final act. In death, as in life, Mihok left no mystery about his intentions—only unease about their quiet inevitability.
He was buried at Hollywood Cemetery, now Hollywood Forever, in a grave that attracted no ceremony and little notice (Garden of Memory, Sect. 6, Grave 368). Like so many others interred there whose stories never found stardom or redemption, Arpad Mihok slipped into anonymity beneath the California sun. His life did not intersect with premieres or studios, yet his final days reveal a stark counterpoint to Hollywood’s mythology: that behind the glamour lay men and women whose suffering was private, methodical, and often forgotten.
Today, Arpad Mihok's story is only preserved in yellowing newsprint and on cemetery records. He is a testament that Hollywood Forever is not only a monument to the famous, but a graveyard of human lives and stories of hope and desperation and final decisions made far away from the glare of the spotlight. In remembering Arpad Mihok, we recognize an unfortunate truth of Hollywood's history: not all deaths were dramatic, and not all tragedies were witnessed—but they all were important.
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